Reflections On Funerals: A Missional Call To Compassion

My dear missional family,

Over the past weeks, I have had the privilege of conducting two funerals for individuals who were not part of our church community and had not been baptized. They were closely connected to our church members. While these moments have allowed us to extend care and support to grieving families, I have been careful not to make promises that are not supported by the teachings of the Bible.

One of the most challenging aspects has been how to offer comfort to families when the salvation of the deceased is uncertain. Without clear evidence of their faith in God, it can be difficult for loved ones to find solace in their grief. In response, I have focused on sharing the Gospel message, emphasizing the hope we find in Christ and the promise of salvation through faith.

However, I am mindful of the potential for misunderstandings that may arise from these funerals. I am concerned that some may perceive them as examples of "cheap grace," where the importance of personal faith and repentance is overlooked in favor of a broad assumption that all are destined for heaven. This is not the message I wish to convey, nor does it align with the biblical teachings on salvation.

As I reflect on these experiences, I am reminded of the need to handle such sensitive matters with care and compassion. While it is our responsibility to offer comfort and support to those who are grieving, we must also uphold the truth of the Gospel and the biblical principles of salvation. My hope is that these funerals will provide opportunities for reflection and contemplation on the true nature of salvation, rather than promoting a superficial understanding of God's grace.

In addition to these theological considerations, I am also encouraged by the presence of our church members at these funerals, even when they did not know the deceased or the family personally. This truly demonstrates our unity as brothers and sisters in Christ, we are closely knitted in the love of God.

In missional Spirit,

Pastor Forest